01 Sep Family Law & High Conflict
Written by Bev Clark (Adelaide Family Lawyer) When humans experience adversity – such as loss of a job or the breakdown of an important relationship – they will often suffer grief and loss, anxiety, depression, hurt, pain, betrayal and a myriad of other emotions. This is totally understandable in the circumstances. Normally, they will recover and heal and move on with their lives. They are willing to make compromises to resolve differences and settle conflicts. On the other hand, high conflict cases usually involve individuals who suffer from a personality disorder – the product of genetics, poor early childhood attachment, trauma, poor modelling or temperament – to name a few of the known roots of this problem. For those folk, they struggle at the best of times to manage their emotions so it is no surprise that when faced with adversity such as that associated with a relationship breakdown, their behaviour can add to the conflict in the case. When we are highly emotional, the part of our brain that controls rational thinking shuts down and the part of our brain designed to provide us with the ability to avoid danger – by flight or fight – kicks in. People with personality disorders can display a lack...